THERE IS A LANGUAGE THAT THIS UNIVERSE SPEAKS ABOUT DREAMS, DESTINY, LOVE AND JOURNEY TO BE TRAVELED.
WE ALL SEE DREAMS ,MANY ARE FULFILLED AND OTHERS GET BURIED ALONG THE JOURNEY .BUT THERE ARE SOME SPECIAL DREAMS WE ALL SEE ONCE IN LIFETIME FOR OUR JOURNEY TO ULTIMATE TREASURE .ITS THE PASSION ,DRIVE ,FORCE AND THE VOICE INSIDE US WHICH GUIDES US TO OUR DESTINED TREASURES .THE CALL IS ALWAYS INSIDE (SLEEPING OR AWAKE ) AND OUR HEART KEEPS REMINDING US …
THIS DOOR NEEDS TO BE OPENED AND PATH TO BE FOLLOWED.
ITS HARD TO BELIEVE WE LIVE IN A WORLD WHERE 99% ARE CONCERNED WITH WHAT OTHERS ARE DOING, AND START FOLLOWING THE CROWD .ONE OF THE BIGGEST REGRET WE MAY FACE IN THE END,” WE DIDN’T RISK IT “.
MARTIN LUTHER KING JR SAID,” THE ULTIMATE MEASURE OF A MAN IS NOT WHERE HE STANDS IN MOMENTS OF CONFIDENCE BUT WHERE HE STANDS AT TIMES OF CHALLENGE AND CONTROVERSY “.
TO CONCLUDE, WHEN WE LEAVE OUR AREAS OF COMFORT FROM KNOWN TO UNKNOWN, PLACE OF UNCERTAINTY AND MYSTERY ……DREAMS HAPPENS.
I have a recurring dream about Medical college . In it, I’m walking to the anatomy class on the way to my first class at the start of the school year. Suddenly it occurs to me that I don’t have my schedule memorized, and I’m not sure which classes I’m taking, or where exactly I’m supposed to be going. As I walk up the steps to the class , I realize I don’t have my box key, and in fact, I can’t remember what my box number is. I’m certain that everyone I know has gifted me , but I can’t get them. I get more flustered and annoyed by the minute. I head back to Middle Path, racking my brains and asking myself, “How many more years until I graduate? …Wait, didn’t I graduate already?? How old AM I?” Then I wake up.
Experience is food for the brain. And five years at Medicine is a rich meal. And I think the reason I keep having the dream is because its central image is a metaphor for a good part of life: that is, not knowing where you’re going or what you’re doing.  It’s surprising how hard we’ll work when the work is done just for ourselves. And with all due respect to John Stuart Mill, maybe utilitarianism is overrated. If I’ve learned one thing that it’s how important playing is to creativity and happiness. I love to come up with 365 ideas a year. I’ve found that the only way I can keep writing , is to let my mind wander into new territories. To do that, I’ve had to cultivate a kind of mental playfulness. At school, new ideas are thrust at you every day. Out in the world, you’ll have to find the inner motivation to search for new ideas on your own. With any luck at all, you’ll never need to take an idea and squeeze a punchline out of it, but as bright, creative people, you’ll be called upon to generate ideas and solutions all your lives.
Letting your mind play is the best way to solve problems. A playful mind is inquisitive, and learning is fun. If you indulge your natural curiosity and retain a sense of fun in new experience, I think you’ll find it functions as a sort of shock absorber for the bumpy road ahead. Nourishing stimulation — is garbage in and out ! We’re not really taught how to recreate constructively. We need to do more than find diversions; we need to restore and expand ourselves. Our idea of relaxing is all too often to plop down in front of the television set and let its pandering idiocy liquefy our brains. Shutting off the thought process is not rejuvenating; the mind is like a car battery — it recharges by running.  You may be surprised to find how quickly daily routine and the demands of “just getting by” absorb your waking hours. You may be surprised to find how quickly you start to see your politics and religion become matters of habit rather than thought and inquiry. You may be surprised to find how quickly you start to see your life in terms of other people’s expectations rather than issues. We all have our true callings !!! R we listening ??
For years I got nothing but rejection letters, and I was forced to accept a real job. A REAL job is a job you hate.… It was a rude shock to see just how empty and robotic life can be when you don’t care about what you’re doing, and the only reason you’re there is to pay the bills. I tell you all this because it’s worth recognizing that there is no such thing as an overnight success. You will do well to cultivate the resources in yourself that bring you happiness outside of success or failure. The truth is, most of us discover where we are headed when we arrive. At that time, we turn around and say, yes, this is obviously where I was going all along. It’s a good idea to try to enjoy the scenery on the detours, because you’ll probably take a few. This turned out to be an important realization when my break finally came. 
Selling out is usually more a matter of buying in. Sell out, and you’re really buying into someone else’s system of values, rules and rewards. The so-called “opportunity” I faced would have meant giving up my individual voice for that of a money-grubbing corporation. It would have meant my purpose was to sell things, not say things. I revisits the question of work ethic, this time in light of defining your own success: You will find your own ethical dilemmas in all parts of your lives, both personal and professional. We all have different desires and needs, but if we don’t discover what we want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and unfulfilled. Sooner or later, we are all asked to compromise ourselves and the things we care about. We define ourselves by our actions. With each decision, we tell ourselves and the world who we are. Think about what you want out of this life, and recognize that there are many kinds of success.  Creating a life that reflects your values and satisfies your soul is a rare achievement. In a culture that relentlessly promotes avarice and excess as the good life, a person happy doing his own work is usually considered an eccentric, if not a subversive. Ambition is only understood if it’s to rise to the top of some imaginary ladder of success. Someone who takes an undemanding job because it affords him the time to pursue other interests and activities is considered a flake. A person who abandons a career in order to stay home and raise children is considered not to be living up to his potential — as if a job title and salary are the sole measure of human worth. You’ll be told in a hundred ways, some subtle and some not, to keep climbing, and never be satisfied with where you are, who you are, and what you’re doing. There are a million ways to sell yourself out, and I guarantee you’ll hear about them. To invent your own life’s meaning is not easy, but it’s still allowed, and I think you’ll be happier for the trouble. Your preparation for the real world is not in the answers you’ve learned, but in the questions you’ve learned how to ask yourself.
When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place!!!!!
My life said to me , Neerja you are going to be happy but first let me make you strong . What we think and believe , What we thrive for , Everything around us will become the same .
I hv always been told to be good , do good and good will come to you . But I learnt “ don’t help others without their permission “ Sometimes it’s wasting time fixing things which others feel is not broken . It’s funny when people think you are thinking about them but actually you are not at all !!!
Something strange and wondrous begins to happen when one spends stretches of time in solitude in the company of trees , far away from the bustle of the human world with its echo , a complete authentic self !!
To conclude : Be gentle with your yourself , you are doing the best . Be tough with those who don’t understand it .. we are here on our journey , if some one doesnot understand it , it’s their problem . I always felt , me and bestie walking on same path will see things differently with different perspective!!! Ultimately we are on our journey to find our treasures ..